Hi, I’m Asti.
I turn high-achieving women into sensual and desirable goddesses so they can manifest confidence, desirability, passion and a turn-on for life!
Using a combination of spiritual practices and logic modern psychology, I help women drop the shame they hold around their sexuality, so they can come back home into their bodies and use their innate sensual radiance to manifest conscious relationships, limitless love, and sex that sets their mind, body and soul on fire.
I work both privately and in an intimate setting with women who are ready and committed to making huge shifts within themselves, their lives and their relationships.
I dreamed of becoming a woman who validated her own beauty; who knew her worth; who stood up for herself; who took up space; who radiated from her own pleasure. I desired a deep compassionate, loving connection with myself – and the world around me – and I found it.
Growing up, I was verbally and sexually abused by boys at school. I developed a deep shame around my body and my sexuality and quickly learnt that to be safe and accepted I needed to dull myself down.
I lost my virginity unwillingly when I was 15. As a young girl with no formal sex education, I believed it was my duty.
To cope with the negative emotion and memories from this traumatic experience, I disconnected from my sexuality all together. For two years I disconnected, not experiencing orgasm at all in my first committed relationship.
My empowerment journey began near the end of a toxic and abusive relationship. I had been pole dancing for a couple of years. It was my first taste of what it was like to feel like a sexual woman and I loved everything that it was offering me. Unfortunately, my boyfriend did not. I was pulled between feeling too much and not enough all at the same time. Confused as to what it took to be a sexy and desirable woman but also be worthy of love. Was it possible?
To answer my question, the universe lead me into the world of stripping. The rage of my boyfriend took me to some of my darkest days. I hit rock bottom. But little did I know, this darkness was a ticket into an upgraded new reality.
What I changed.
I decided to get out of the mess I was in, left my boyfriend, left the country and gave myself space to heal.
The book ‘You can heal your life’ (Louise Hay) fell into my lap, changed my life forever and began the phase of binge reading self-development books.
I decided to follow my own set of rules, regardless of what was expected of me by society.
I spent time around other women who were comfortable in their bodies and with their sexuality. I gave myself permission to explore my sexuality openly, in ways I never had.
Stripping gave me the power to regain self-worth, confidence and a deep sense of desirability.
I invested tens of thousands of dollars on an intensive deep dive into understanding the psychology of sexual healing and rediscovered my sexuality through ancient spiritual and sexual practices.
The girl I used to be is unrecognisable.
I can truly say I am secure within my body,
I validate and celebrate my own beauty.
I know my worth,
I take up space,
I radiate from my own pleasure.
My life is full of play and adventure.
I’ve manifested a new beautiful, deeply loving, affectionate and passionate relationship.
Most importantly, I feel deeply desired and madly loved – it is possible!
Now I simply want to share what worked for me, with hope it will work for YOU
I’m here to support other women to heal the relationship with their bodies and their sexuality by connecting them back to their own deep, innate, female wisdom.
I’m here to awakening the feminine flame, one goddess at a time.
I’ve got you.